17 days NC

thanks for your support guys and gals, i wish we all lived in the same place so we could all go out and help one another haha. But this board is still very efective.

But your right Fishingthesky, unforunately I dont have a clue if this is a rebound or not for me as this is the first break up my ex and i ever had. It’s just boggles me that she moved on so quickly but your right, we cant really do anything. But we will be ok! As we cant let this one obstacle stop us. Il llet you know if anything comes up but has you ex responded to your goodbye letter? I probably should consider writing one soon. Maybe send it out 1 or 2 months from now.

thanks palmtree, ill keep that in mind, as i most likely wont want to even know about whats going on with her and the new guy, will most likely just makes things worse if i read into it lol i am very glad that you are feeling much happier, im sure ill get happier as each day pass and probably wont hear from her anymore. I probably will do a letter like Fishinghteskys and send it to her with her belongings a month or two from now. We will all pull thru together 🙂

a plus thing i did today was book an appointment to get my full sleeve tattoo done lol. Before i was scared and my ex kept telling me to get it , stop being a wimp lol But now I felt like screw it, what do i have to lose now. I always wanted one and i talked to the artist and booked it lol. I have 0 tattoos and will be doing my full arm within the first session. Will proabbly shock my ex if i ever see her lol. It’s a tattoo of a Dragon from my chest wrapping around my arm, and a picture of buddha on my shoulder. Since my ex and i broke up, i have been really following my buddhist religon and it is really helping my cope with it. It is really teaching me not hold onto bad thoughts, as holding it on is just like poison. Once we let it go, we may finally be at peace.

Hey guys,
I think it’s a great idea to get something new done like the piercing or tattoo. I have got my tongue pierced since the break up. I had it when me and my ex first got together. But a year in I took it out. He didn’t like it and I just thought yeah it’s not really me anymore (probably another sign of me loosing myself in the relationship) so I got it done again. Just to symbolise individuality and strength.

Pingpong, I am sorry to hear about your ex, that is a horrible situation to come across. You guys were together for such a long time, that pretty much everything will remind her of you. So fingers crossed that she won’t be able to stop thinking like : ( well “pingpong” laughed at that or “pingpong” did this).
If your aim is to still get her back, make sure you heel a first and then you have to try and just stay present in her life I think).

I still haven’t heard anything after 7 weeks NC. It’s kind of heart breaking he doesn’t want to know how I am. And he can just want me out of his life. I have no idea what goes through people brains 🙁 wish I knew

Yeah I’m sure you will! How could you not! Haha.
Today is a hard day for me. A year ago I had to go through a sexual assault situation, which was the start of my year going very down hill. He was there to support me through it all. Although it caused me to be depressed and paranoid etc.although he was amazing, a lot of the time it was “yeah well it affects me as well Sorcha…” And sometimes got quite selfish about it.
I doubt i will hear from him which just makes me so angry, and upset. Almost like it won’t affect him any more, he’s left that behind. And he probably won’t care how I’m feeling.
I just want the caring person back. And if I can’t is like an explanation as to why he isn’t that person anymore.

Sorry this is probably to much information for this forum but I don’t know where else to vent 🙁

Hi everyone, so I got some good news today. A friend told me that my ex and his girlfriend may not be together anymore. We don’t know for sure but it sounds like it. I know he may not come back to me but I just feel so happy right now lol.

I’m hoping she was just a rebound. The only reason why we think they aren’t together anymore is because my friend said he posted something weird on his story and on Instagram he changed the caption of the picture of them two with flowers. He changed it to “I should’ve bought the cheap flowers instead.” which is kind of immature of him to do, I guess it all depends on what she did to him.

I don’t follow him on anything and he is private so I won’t see it. I checked if I was still blocked on Facebook and I am. But I made my accounts public so if he ever gets curious he could see my stuff.

I’m really hoping she was just a rebound and he does happen to come back, but I’m not going to assume things. I don’t want to get upset in the end if it doesn’t end up like how I want it to.

Are you expecting him to reply back? Good luck!

Did you get any reply back yet?

My friend followed my ex on Instagram because she was curious to see if he would block her like he has done to my other friends (we aren’t blocked anymore on Instagram). And surprisingly it has been 15 minutes and he hasn’t blocked her. I’m sure he has seen it so that’s a good sign I guess.

I know how you feel, it will be 4 months next week and I haven’t gotten anything but eye contact with my ex. But I finally looked at his account and he has me blocked. He usually never had me blocked because his Instagram was just private so I couldn’t see anything anyways. But my friend said his page was public this time so I’m guessing that’s why I’m blocked again. His profile picture is still of him and the other girl, we don’t understand why.