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  • #28231
    Caz15
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    NO she is not gone, she’s texting worried about you then getting angry then sharing some of her life again with you, if she was gone and didn’t care do you think she would have text?

    How do you know? I feel like that but I stay strong because i want him back but got to follow these steps.

    Come on you can do it! Get up in the shower blast the radio and dance around, get your heart beating fast and enjoy what you have now which is friends, family, job, home, only one piece of the jigsaw is missing but she will fall into place soon πŸ™‚

    #28233
    patrick d
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    But I want her now. I feel so sad

    #28236
    Caz15
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    I know I want my ex too but we need to keep our spirits up..

    All in good time like you said “Rome wasn’t build in a day”

    β€œIf you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.”.

    KEEP POSITIVE MO CHARA

    #28257
    Caz15
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    How you holding up?

    #28260
    patrick d
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    Hi. Slept a lot. Guess I needed that. Feel a bit dosed.
    The email from Kevin days what you have been saying. She needs time. What phase is she in now? Missing me?
    How are you today?

    #28262
    Caz15
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    Sleep does help, it helps the body heal because a broken heart has to be the worst thing for your body and spirit! you will like you have no energy but do what I said, shower on blast music! Get your heart rate up…

    Exactly she needs space and time, it’s hard to know what phase but he says the missing phase can last for months.
    She does miss you hence the texts πŸ™‚

    I’m doing ok! Just thinking it’s his loss now and I should move on

    #28263
    patrick d
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    That’s the stuff. You sound a lot more positive than yesterday.

    Yeah. I’ll let things work out whatever they they will. Just had a friend text saying she is sick listening to the same story and doesn’t want to see me until I’m feeling better. I can understand. But I better try to relax.

    #28265
    Caz15
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    Not really positive but I’m moving on now! I’m not sending my letter, he knows where I am.

    It’s hard when all you want to do is talk about it because you need to get it all out to make sense of it, I said the same thing I feel like I’m boring my friends!

    Just concentrate on you πŸ™‚

    #28266
    patrick d
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    You are not going to send the letter? Wow. You sure about that?
    Big decision but can understand. If he wants you he will come looking

    #28268
    Caz15
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    No! Don’t see the point he won’t respond and then he has the power again, he will think she’s sending me this to see if she can get back together with me and that’s not what he wants.

    Exactly he has my number & he can chase me from now on. It’s a lost cause now because we did try for 4 months and it didn’t work.

    #28295
    patrick d
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    Up to yourself. Your logic sounds good. He will make contact. Be sure of that.
    You’re right. She wouldn’t text if she didn’t miss me. I’ll give her time. I’m going to really work on me. Do everything I can to feel happy. Think I’ll go to the cinema again tonight. … alone.
    Because I want to. She might text this week and she might not. Either way I need to be happy.

    #28296
    patrick d
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    When is the best time to contact? Missing you badly time?

    #28297
    patrick d
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    Coming up on 2 weeks now. Hard to believe that.

    #28298
    Caz15
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    He won’t! I know too much has happened and he said it’s all water under the bridge!

    Exactly if she was really moving on she would have left you alone…go and see a happy movie no romance…she will text!

    As kevin says it’s the missing you badly time but the space and time comes before that.

    Your doing brilliantly! so proud of you πŸ™‚

    #28300
    patrick d
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    I think you are doing brilliantly. Exactly when you don’t care about the outcome is when the universe will send you what you want. Have faith.
    Watching a romance last night (Stephen hawking film). Bad idea.
    Going to watch imitation game tonight. Bit of maths. I’ll like that.
    Think she is beginning the missing me stage. Or still in the bad memories leaving stage. On the border somewhere.
    I’ll give it time. Give her time to remember how great I am. Lol.
    Any other craic today?

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