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thanks. i haven’t text anything yet but may Combine the 2 ideas of yours. As in “I’m good thanks. I Need some space at the Moment. I’ll be in touch when I’m ready”. But that’s breaking NC is it not? Anyway, she can be stubborn so i will hear nothing for a while now.
Have you heard anything in the 15 days? Any word at all? Anything on Facebook?
It’s not breaking it your just responding in a nice way and not being rude. Go straight back into NC.
I’ve heard nothing, he blocked me on facebook when we broke up in August.
I will only send that if she texts again (3rd) time and if i get a Feeling that she is genuinely worried about me.
Facebook is a load of crap anyway. Nobody is real on it so you’re missing nothing. I just use it to Chat with Family and friends at home.
Your Story is very similar to mine. Did you do anything about the drinking? If somebody else starts telling you that you have a Problem then you do. I did too. So I quit. In day 57 now without that and never fealt better. But I could only have managed that with the Support of Family and friends back home and gallons of tea
Do so she does not think that you are not being rude. That way she will be thinking about you a lot more.
To be honest I’m glad he done it because it made it a little bit easier not to see him.
I did I seeked help and now I’m doing much better, I went back to Ireland also to my family who were really supportive.
I am losing hope as he has not contacted in 15 days and doesn’t seem to care but I am focusing just on me now.
You’re from Ireland? I did reread the “back home” bit and wonder. It takes a Long time for them to notice or believe in a Problem back there, but when they do they are great. Tea and cigarettes are my replacement for now.
Should I text her then today or wait for another message?
I am, I’m back in the UK now, I went back for 4 months. They were brilliant but I don’t think anyone really understands a break up unless they are going through it. This is why this site helps, tea and cigerattes for me also.
I would wait for another text.
Another text came. There is post for me. What will she do with it? Does she Sound pushy now? What will I do?
She’s trying to reach out, send the text and say I’ll collect post when you are out or if can pass onto a friend and thank her for letting you know.
There has been post there for weeks. She could have brought it to me earlier. I’m confused. Faack
Is she looking for a reason to meet? I don’t want that yet
OK. I have no key so i will have to think of somewhere she can leave it. In a shop or something.
What do you mean by reaching out? Getting scared?She’s trying to speak to you and maybe want to talk but if you are not ready do not meet her.
She’s using the post as an excuse to talk to you. It’s keeping her in contact with you.
She possibly could be scared that you will move on.
That’s horribly confusing. 3 Messages in 24 hours. And I still don’t know what is going on. She has set me back a bit. But she seems to be pushing for a reply of some sort.
I will have to think. Why push to Keep contact so badly? She has the new man.It will be for you, but she still does have feelings for you, she will push for a reply as your not at her beck and call and acting all needy and desperate and she can see on Facebook your doing things for you.
I bet her new man doesn’t knows she is texting, it’s definitely a rebound relationship she is in.
I doubt very much that he knows. Might still just be innocent friendly stuff, but she would have sorted the post weeks ago. I knew this would come up but didn’t prepare myself. I have never not replied before. This is a serious challenge now. Ignoring this message would be very rude but Meeting her is dangerous.
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