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  • #32393
    divjun
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    I really hope he’ll regret what he did to me. I tried each and every way possible to make it work. But just doesn’t see it. He is always pointing out my mistakes. He never regrets anything. He is ready to face all the consequences but wouldn’t accept his mistake EVER. I feel he doesnt even want me. He has never changed for anyone in his entire life.

    #32401
    Gingerone
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    I’m sure he will relaise sooner rather than latter. Stay strong I hope u get your wish

    #32404
    divjun
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    Hmm.thanks for being so positive about my situation:)

    #32405
    Gingerone
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    If he’s anything like me he will understand that he’s done wrong. I know every situation is different but I do hope things work out for u.

    #32623
    d01269631
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    Clearly he is confused and perhaps doesn’t know how to reconcile with you. he seems to be a little bit selfish and only thinks about his feelings so if you do the NC it should help him realize that he was being inconsiderate of you so give it time do the NC for 30 days and he should be trying to contact you after that and try responding and see what is on his mind, but if you’re stubborn you never know.

    #32625
    d01269631
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    * if he’s stubborn you never know.

    #32627
    divjun
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    Hmm.. i know what you mean.. but the thing is he never sees his own mistakes and how he’s been treating me. The fact being i tried to tell him how i feel about this qhole situation and what he’s doing to me but he never pays any attention.
    He wanted to be alone and didnt want to meet anyone so he left me alone. He would bring anytopic to fight and would only talk to him when he wanted. And when we were having arguments he would call me moody and selfish just because when i am hurt i go nc for 2-3 days!!!

    I dont k ow if this type of a person can regret something in life: /

    #32628
    divjun
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    I tried to ask him what does he wants so many times but he is not telling e anything. Instead when we are in middle of an argument he would only say that he wants to be left alone.
    And he wants to be single and have a simple life.
    Clearly he is not happy with me. So when i leave him for a few days he would fight woth me for leaving him alone.
    If i didnt leave him alone, i know he wouldn’t reply to my texts and would hurt me intentionally i guess.
    He has changed alot.he was nothing like this.

    #32631
    divjun
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    Oops… we didnt meet last on 1 st july but on 1st january…

    #32636
    MrCat22
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    Give it time. Just go NC for now. Work on yourself.

    #32639
    MrCat22
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    Can you look at my post

    I tried, but now it's really over

    #32674
    Rawan
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    I think that your ex is confused about his feelings, he still loves you but not sure if he wants you, you should go on nocontact period for at least one month and a half to show him that you’re not always available whenever he wants and never reply on his texts during this period

    #32676
    divjun
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    Thanks for your views. And i am doing the same thing but the difference being i am going NC till he starts valuing me again and respect my needs. I can know by the texts he leave me. He is still that unemotional and rude guy. So i am not even thinking of contacting him.

    #32804
    divjun
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    Got a text from him last night, that is on the end of day 6 of nc.
    The text said “atleast tell me if you’re not gonna reply”
    I didnt reply!!

    #32821
    JJ93
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    @divjun He is exactly like me. He is confused. He’ll realize it soon.
    Unfortunately my Ex gf is with someone else now and I am hoping she’ll come back.
    Just wait for him to realize. Dominating and egoistic people will be good from heart. They just fail to express their care and love.

    I dont him to be in the situation where I am standing now. He’ll realize soon. Follow strict NC. Good Luck.

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