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thanks cassie. 🙂 Im going to call or text him because he needs info for the insurance. he left me 2 voicemails so Im just gonna get this done with. I hope im doing good. i just wanted to do no contact to better my self. I dont think he misses me at all though. idk im so confused right now for the way hes acting. ugh lol. im going to go walking now and when I come back I’ll write more and any and all info. and reply. thanks 🙂
should I text him the info then?? why dont I feel this way though? I feel like hes not. im just so confused. I dont think hes looking to talk to me. ugh lol thanks for replying divjun. 🙂
Ummm. You should obv text him if he needs it but don’t do it now. Text him after 6-7 hours. Take your time. And if he really wanted to talk, he wouldn’t just tell you that. Guys are pretty good in hiding their feelings and can divert their mind way to easily.
But in the end you know him better. I just feel like he finds excuses to talk to you.
He could have just left a text or could have asked the kids to tell you about the insurance thing or whatever it is.
Idk im confused too lolhes at his job and called from his jobs phone which is why I know he needed it. I just dont want to talk to him. Im very confused. ugh idk what to do. @cassie what do you think as well? lol
im going to send him a text saying I saw a missed call from you and a voicemail you asking for insurance info. so here it is. and send to him the info he asked for this way I wont have to talk to him. what do ya think? omg im so confused but I dont think hes trying to talk to me or he would probably say it right? ugh anyone? thanks
I sent him a text saying hi I just saw a missed call and voicemail from you. I think you requested some info. here they are. I gave it to him. then said, I hope this is the info you need. if you have anymore questions feel free to ask. with a smiley face. was that good? thanks
I think that was good! 🙂 He may not reply you but don’t worry about that – he will contact you again. He is confused right now so he doesnt know what to do.
ok ya I just came back from my 3 mile walk and have to go to get my youngest at school. so on my walk he called one more time and i didnt answer but he then sent me a text saying thanks. then he called again but I didnt answer. thing being I gave him the info he wanted so why would he call me again? then he sent me a text saying why cant you pick up the phone? I didnt answer him. what do ya think? why is he contacting me ect? help. how should I act? should I text him back? anything? thanks
Lol dont reply. Its bothering him now. And now I am quite sure he wants to talk to you. Keep doing what you’re doing. Its a really good sign. Keep him wondering why you’re not talking to him.
really? im so surprised because he doesnt seem to do this kinda of thing. funny thing is i was telling my mother in law yesterday im done with this cause the pain was to much. how weird. are you sure? and for how long do I not reply or contact him for? btw hes known to “magically appear” in places so idk if he’ll try that on me again or what. im very confused and dont seem to think that hes trying to reach out to me. I find this very weird. hmmm.what do you think?
Hahaha! He really hates the fact that you are being unavailable. I think you should reply him though – not straight away but in a few hours time you can text him asking whats up?
he hasnt text or anything anymore. omg idk what to do. you made me laugh cassie when you said hahaha. lol so you dont think I should continue no contact? I think if I do text him back he’ll say nevermind or something along those lines, but im not sure. I think I should just ignore him but idk. what do you think? so you guys think that hes really trying to communicate with me? I wonder if it was because I was unavailable to him all day yesterday? but I was having me fun. 🙂 lol. so what should I text him exactly? if I decided to? I think I should let him think what he wants just because he has hurt me so much, but is very confusing. ugh..what do you guys think? lol im going crazy here. lol thanks
DON NOT TEXT HIM. Remain unavailable. Don’t ignore him though. Let him try more and more. If he magically appears, tell him you were busy and were just about to leave him a text.lol.
If you remain available, he ll think as if he can have you whenever he feels like.
You need to keep up the nc. And you dont need to reply him. Its for your benefit.
After so many days you’re feeling emotionally okay. Don’t throw it away all lik that. Show him that you’re fine and can survive without him.
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