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ok so I was thinking of my whole situation yesterday and before my husband and oldest started laughing at me his mother was saying that we should take our youngest to the hospital (funny thing is I told her no) and then she mentioned it to him and he stated “we” use to take them to the hospital but stop taking them unless they have a fever because they usually say that its a virus or something. my mother in law also said that my oldest looks like him and I said yeah I remember when you were a baby you use to make the same face as he did, we use to tell you to make his face and you would do it. and he looked like he was thinking. is this a good thing? he also started talking about one of my favorite shows, idk why, but he did. so then after all of this was that he said that stupid comment. what do you guys think of this? and of the whole situation? I was thinking the whole “boyfriend” comment could have been a distraction from the whole situation or to think he doesnt miss me or that he was “trying” to find out if I had a “boyfriend”? probably not right? ugh please help me out here. anyone? thanks “-/
i dont know honestly, its really hard to tell. your guess is as good as mine to what those mean :\
Hey @aamls ,
its all great. He is showing positive signs lately.
even if he was trying to find out if you have a boyfriend, this means he is interested in your life and specially in your love life. If he had nothing to do with it, he wouldn’t say anything like that. And the part of making fun of you, its actually cute like having family time and fun. It was in a friendly way. Nothing to worry about. You’re doing really really great 🙂thanks otherone. so what do you think about everything over all the whole situation n general? thanks
@divjun thanks I hope your right but I feel him distant, ugh I miss him so much. :'( I feel like im never gonna get him back, 🙁
idk if he was trying to find out if I had a boyfriend by his words to my oldest which were “good now she can find a boyfriend” and I wasnt in the room when he said it. 🙁
“He is showing positive signs lately.
even if he was trying to find out if you have a boyfriend, this means he is interested in your life and specially in your love life. If he had nothing to do with it, he wouldn’t say anything like that. ”I agree with that! You should be patient also, and what is wrong with your oldest one? Why is she doing all of this to annoy you?
I hope so I feel like im going crazy. 🙁 on the other hand I was thinking of doing something I’ve been wanting to do for a while and never went to do it. I was thinking of volunteering at the humane society. this way I’ll learn new skills, stay busy, do something I love (working with animals) and meet new people. I think this will help me a lot until I find a job as well. I will however continue to exercise and lose weight and get healthy. and will continue to study my book, and will continue to try to improve in all ways that I can. 🙂 but I still miss him so much. :'( thanks divjun
thanks clear. I really dont know what is up, maybe this separation thing has taken a big toll on both of them. do you think i’ll ever get him back?
thanks nick. 🙂 what do you think of my whole situation? im very confused about everything and am feeling depressed. 🙁 thanks
so I was thinking something, you guys are all saying that hes throwing me good signs, but my question is this: why did he say its not his fault im insecure when I said his nose is red and he look like Rudolf? it doesnt make sense and I was playing with him. why would he say im insecure?
ok why does he keep calling his “mommys” phone to talk to my children and what not? my youngest wanted him to pick her up and he told her in a little bit. what is going on here? I feel so depressed and all. ugh anyone? thanks btw im gonna try to not be here when he comes, I feel to hurt to see him. :'( i feel like nothing seems to be working. 🙁 thanks
I don’t why he said that your insecure. This might sound silly but if you are showing that you are fine and normal when you are around him he might be angry with that. He might be thinking why is she normal, I’m having a hard time with this and she’s joking around like nothing has happens.
I know when me and my dad have arguments he brushes it off really quick and acts like it never happend and I just get really annoyed because of it.
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