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Aamls you do not need him. Most of your posts are asking how to act around him. I know you wonder and love this guy but you need to drop him. He doesn’t sound like a positive influence in your life.
Be confident. Go through with the divorce. Take control of the situation. Show him the consequences of leaving you and the kids.
omg he had called me like 2 or 3 times. im so confused. I thin it may have been a coincidence but he left me a blank message but in the back ground he was listening to romeo ft usher the song promise. ugh im trying not to put mind to it but ugh. sorry guys im not responding to ya, im pretty busy. ugh ill try to read and reply to ya’s threads later. omg im so confused. ugh lol any thoughts? im still not contacting him, im afraid of him showing up here. lol hes know to do that type of things. if he does what should I do or say or act? i need to be prepared. lol ugh
I guess hes not gonna look for me anymore. I wish he would but he probably doesnt miss me or anything, ugh 🙁 oh wow I need to try to stay on top of doing me. I’m trying to stay strong, its hard, I hope I can continue this. 🙂 someone just told me about a job. 🙂 so hopefully this is another good thing for me. they told me to try it out so I am. this would be a great thing for me because my husband would bash me for not working lol and not only do I wanna show him but I wanna get a job for me and to feel independent as well. plus I could really use the money. lol 🙂 I highly doubt he would contact me but I’ll keep ya posted. 🙂 oh crap hes calling me now. I wonder why. should I answer?
Hahaha this is funny now! 🙂 You are so worried that he doesnt miss you and stuff but he keeps calling you so of course you are on his mind! This is great for you with a job and everything, you’re on the right track and you are doing so well 🙂 COngrats
ugh he left me a voice mail. he doesnt care about me at all. all he wants to know is if I found health insuarance or not so he knows if to drop me from his or not to. ugh and also which this is so weird he wants to pick up the kids at school so he could take them to school in the morning. he said to send him a text letting him know, since im not talking to him and he doesnt know why. ugh I feel like I hate him. this isnt fair or right. maybe he is moving on. im so confused and disappointed. ugh i just wanna cry. 🙁 this is not fair. im gonna text him and tell him I need the health insurance. what should I do? anyone? @a.z. @cassie @bguarino @duvjun anyone? thanks should I just talk to him? should I ask him to add me to his gym membership? idk anymore. hes not even reaching out to me. I guess it is over. 🙁
@cassie. oh lol what do you think of what I just worte? this is so stressful.
I still think that it’s positive that he even bothers to call you and leave you voice messages. If he didnt care he wouldnt even ask you. If you need to be on his health insurance you should either text or call him back saying you need to be on it.
ive lost all hope. I think hes done with me. I’ll just text him and let him know then. ugh. I just texted him. saying: Hi I got a voicemail from you. I do need the health insurance. thanks for asking. was that good? should I ask him to see if he could add me to his gym membership? or is that to much? im so confused atm. I dont think he wants to go back with me and this hurts me bad. 🙁
what do you think @cassie do I still have a chance? im so confused. I dont think he misses me or anything. ugh this aint fair. it was to good to be true. ugh 🙁
I think the text was good 🙂 Hmm, i’m not sure it’s a good idea asking to be put on his gym membership just right now.. is it something you guys have talked about before? I think that you are on his mind a lot but it’s hard to see what he is thinking..
This is a good sign. He is always calling you for one reason or the other.
You should stay strong and positive. The text was good.
Keep it simple and to the point.
He ll call you again I can bet.lol :p
Btw, my ex didn’t text me again after that 🙁no cassie never discussed it. 🙁 ugh, lol ugh he just sent me a message just now saying: how about the kids? can I get them? ugh this is horrible. what do you think?
@divjun theses guys are horrible. ugh he doesnt care about me. ugh 🙁 i wanna cry, lol
he wants to pick up the kids here tonight. last time he did this he never let me know that he dropped them off. also hes never offer to take them to school either. Im just going to tell him to either come in the morning for them or to get them on the weekend because of everything. Im glad hes caring about the kids and all but I guess he doesnt care about me at all. 🙁 I guess I just need to keep doing me. this is so painful. its not fair. I miss him so much and he doesnt care at all about me. ugh. 🙁
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