Meeting up with his mum..

Anybody any advice? We’re meeting in 8 hours.

Colleagues at work this morning have told me i shouldn’t even be going, that it should be a clean break and i should leave it.. but they don’t know my secret battle to win him back!

So confused!

I think I’m gonna be strong and act fine (I am really), but she will know I miss him, were close so she will be able to tell!
To be honest im not sure he’ll have opened up to her much as he finds she tried to control his life.. But I am hoping she’ll have something new for me! Who knows! I’m say waiting now so I will keep you updated x

Thanks @annakis

So it went okay! I got a little upset as his cousin was there who is 6 and she gave me flowers and a kiss and hug and it made me cry! Just a little overwhelming..

His mum said I look really good, that it was the first thing she noticed! 🙂 always a positive!

hes kept his cards very close to his chest with her too so she said she couldn’t give me any indication how he’s feeling but that she thinks I should text him to open the communication again.. She said she just doesn’t have a clue what will happen either but that I am doing all the right things.. As positive as it could be I guess?

I’ll be 30 days tomorrow! :S I can’t work out if I’m ready or not.. I think I am but im nervous! How ridiculous is that?
He’s always been quite reserved with his emotions anyway! Which was why I was suprised that he cried when he said his goodbyes, I’d only seen it once before in the whole 6 years and it was when he told me he loved me for the first time (he’d had a few drinks too). So I don’t even know what that means?

I thought about the letter a lot! But i’m not sure how he’d take it..

Yes im nervous but getting antsy about texting him, i think i need to do it, but i do worry for my feelings haha!

How far into NC are you? Sorry if you’ve already told me, I lose track..

I definitely think if it’s been enough time then a letter won’t harm.. Just make sure it’s not obviously trying to get you back together 🙂 im sure you know that already..

You’ll have to let me know when you send it and what happens! I can’t decide whether to text mine tomorrow before I sort his stuff out on Saturday or on Monday after iv sorted it! I know he has plans with friends this weekend so don’t want to do it then! Do you think I should do Monday or tomorrow?

No I think your right.. I’ll wait until Monday!
I was literally just going to say that i have his stuff and give him the option of him getting it from me and meeting up to see each other or that I will give it to his mum! That way if he wants to see me he can but if he doesn’t or he’s not ready he doesn’t feel im pushing it. I was also going to say I hope he enjoyed his weekend as I know what he has planned and he’s been looking forward to it! Or do you think that looks too stalkerish? How familiar should I be when we haven’t spoken in what will be 5 weeks?