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Sounds like your doing everything right, play it cool don’t get too needy and I have no doubt you’ll be together soon. Did u do no contact and if so how long for? Seems like your on the right track. Like I said try and play it cool you don’t want to scare her off. I hope to be in your situation soon but first I need to finish no contact.
what my ex did was this during the no contact “i cant believe the beat us to it!” and something else too i cant remember. point im trying to make is that she didnt just say “hey”. she engaged into something we would have to talk about. so when you do dont just say hi or hey or how are you doing? relate to something, anything!. and just make sure you wait at least 30 days. it took me 30 days exactly but she text me once throughout, which was just what i said 🙂
okay. Well tomorrow its 33 days – I chickened out contacting him today in the end 😛 Im going to try again tomorrow and see if I can! I guess I’m just scared because he’s the one that broke up….i feel like he should contact first but he won’t – hes so stubborn!
Ive been getting job offers e.t.c though, so hoping that he’ll ask about that a bit!
my dear, don’t wait for him to contact. maybe he is waiting for you for some reason. well mine was the one to contact me the first couple of times but I never counted cause there were reasons for him to. but he didn’t have to he was basically making me a favor which was really nice 🙂 I just hope all isn’t lost now that I jumped on talking about the relationship too soon
so tomorrow contact him. think of an excuse. or just try to catch up and go from there. use the plan
What kaila said 🙂 just do it! And once you do, you will be way more confident. But don’t go overboard with texts! Just be cool. 🙂
Thargus you did well!!!hope i can keep up with NC.its difficult.
amy111 make the contact and inform us what happened.i apreciate if you read my case a gave me an opinion or advice.
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I have a question though, do you think it would be a nice idea to surprise her by picking her up from work later on? Or would that be stupid and needy etc etc? Be honest!
I think it may depend what sort of vibe you get from her as to whether that is a good idea or not. You don’t want to run the risk of scaring her off, or coming on too strong at this point. But at the same time if it is something she will like then it is a good idea 🙂
i think you are in a good position right now.maybe you can go from her work by “accident” and offer yourself to bring her at her home.or do what your instict and heart tells you…its thought…
The only thing in worried about really is if she will have an idea that she is having the benefits of a relationship while not being in one sort of thing :\ I’m just driving home now and I will read your story @geodj 🙂
I see what you mean. She’s getting all the good from you without having to commit to that relationship once again!
Exactly! I haven’t given any lifts since or anything like that, but lately she is often on facebook saying how she has to walk to work.. And that its a pain getting from here and there, then she has to catch busses back and forth on a Tuesday. So she clearly misses the lifts, but being as its a nice day and she has been quiet the past 3 days with texting.. I dunno
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