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Thanks, but he will for sure and if she is the opposite it can mean that he is trying to change his mind off of you and he will realise she is not the kind of girl he likes and will most likely start thinking of you again if he isnt already. He will probably even message you first.
All you gotta do is stop contacting him and if he contacts you dont answer during NC after NC dont ac needy, try to be friendly then move thibgs forward 😉
You can do this i believe in you, remember as long as you have the will anything is possible 🙂
I hope so. Hopefully he will realize it when im gone too long but yah im afraid he will forget about me too. Its hard when we used to be really close and had feelings for 8 months and suddenly a mistake blow his mind and he moved on with someone else and it seems pretty serious too. Im mot sure whether its rebound but yah i do my nc now. Try to keep busy and taking cvare of myself. I hope my time will be better soon. Hopefully yours too 🙂
Yes i hope so too for both of us, i’ll stay updated on your posts and help as much as i can 🙂
Best of luck! Dont give up :p
You too! Im so stress and hurt to see their honeymoon phase. Urgh! Everything they want to tag each other like videos, pictures. Its like i dont even exist. And he doesnt even text my friend to ask bout me. Sigh.
Hey girls I been reading your to story life’s shit ain’t it…don’t no men get under someone to get over someone and not feel no way about puting all over social media they go on like they never met us 🙁 Aryann I’m in abit like u my ex and I broke up and been 4months and he with someone else and living with tham think he really likes her as he don’t contact me no more only about his daughter but wen he comes to pick her up he’s always like u look gorgeous how’s u tying hug me :/ but feels no way bout walking out the door to go bk to her 🙁 what do I do ladies….and Samuel it’s hard to tell if it’s a rebound I offen wonder if this girl is to him.but I’m not to sure no more it’s hard to get tham bk wen they got other ppl tking there mind of us
I wish i can read my ex bf mind. Huhu. I just want a second chance. Last chance. Im human. I did mistakes. But i try to make it right and he doesnt allow me to. In fact, he has someone else. Its totally unfair and i hate it. I hate the fact that he is happy without me and throw all his feelings to another gurl which is completely opposite me
Im sure at like 85% that the relationship my ex is in right now is a rebound because her things with the guy are moving realy fast, she is already saying she could not live without him after one month. She used to say that about me but i became that after 3 months.
The guy has the same hobbie as i do, good in school like me, takes care of her like i did. He took the spot i used to occupie in her heart, something she held dearly and was empty once she left me. Her best friend was around to help her out and then she started seeing him and then dating.
They started seeing each other 2-3 weeks after we broke up, they were official a month ago.
If what ive been reading recently is true, she is not over the break up she just found a guy who could take my place without the arguments we used to have or doubts i had about her friendship with her best friend..
And even if the fight is very hard to win and i have barely any chance to win i’m still going to try my best, i really love her and want her back!
@aryann your story seem a lot like mine in some way I say that to my ex all the time how can u give this new girl all the love we had it don’t seem right as he loved me so much makes me hate him…if he really loved me he be sat home missing me he says he miss me and that he still loves me but don’t wanan go throw all agen these ppl that all our ex have got with take our mind of us I think I’m never gonna win him bk while she’s on the sceen as ain’t had time to miss me I deffo don’t think she’s a rebound as I sed do u love her he sed why u asking me this ?? If he didn’t wud sed no 🙁 and I no what u mean bout the other person being oppsit as this girl he’s with is more like him than me as she likes to party etc ok a stay at home mum kinda girl this stucks do we do no contact or will bring tham closer togeva
@samuel it’s defo hard to say it’s a rebound I’m Hopeing it is for me to as mine moved quick after 3 weeks us spitting up he moved in with her I no he had no we’re to live now he don’t live with me but still makes me sad…they are deffo moving quick and they say that’s a rebound right???? Guess me and u got hope that my ex and yours r rebound…I have been there wen it spoke to someone and made me not think bout him or anything so I no it does work but does help our situation 🙁 but surely tham seeing eachother all the time not gonna help guess we got sit bk and watch we prob be over tham by then.. But I have a kid which makes it hard..how long u been spilt up?? You sound like u.could win her bk if u give her time she mite just be hocked on him Cus it’s a rebound but he prob don’t feel this way
@ jessie2120
Its hard to understand whether or not their in a rebound, evaluate the facts and see.
But if you do love this guy you’ll never be over him you will always love him no matter what. You’ll get over the pain of the break up thats for sure but he will be on your mind from time to time.
No you dont you want him back in your life in the near future where all the mistakes that were made can be avoided, repeating the past is probably not what you want considering you dont want to re live that pain of the break up or fights you guys had
Can I ask u a question as your a boy ? He seems like really likes her and she does him as now she telling him he can’t go mine only pick his daughter up and go but he still sleeping with me does it mine he still wants me ? Or Cus we been togeva 7years and he just wants his cake and eat it
If he really liked her wud he do that to her ? Or is he just not fully over me yet he don’t make time for me no more hardly txts bk
Well maybe he isnt fully over you but he could be using you for sex but he for sure dosent care much for his new gf.
Do the NC for 30 days and then contact him so he can make a decision if he is persistent on sleeping with you make him do a decision between you and the new girl thats what i would do to be honnest
But if i was the guy it would mean i’d still like you
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