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  • #37510
    KD1988
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    Just normal chat. Been like a normal conversation. It’s so weird. Sometimes I feel we are going the right way, and then I think I’m reading into things too much

    #37574
    Mj
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    Have you received the letter yet?!

    #37593
    KD1988
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    @mj not yet. It come around lunch time today (it’s 7am here now)
    I’m so scared to read it! I know he is just going to be polite and friendly but nothing will have changed 🙁

    #37632
    Jared
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    Good Luck @KD1988. My friend talked to my ex for an hour last night about everything for the first time since the break. I asked him “would u say it went well?” He said “Yes and no”. Wont know until later today what happen. Wish me luck

    #37636
    KD1988
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    @Jared, his letter hasn’t come yet 🙁 Will probably be tomorrow now. I just feel scared what he is going to say. We have been talking a lot this weekend, just normal talk. But I think I need to go back to NC again.

    Good luck for talking to your friend later!

    #37641
    Jared
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    Thanks @KD1988. Yea but normal talk could be good. Getting your foot in the door is pretty nice =) Still no contact from her at all. I hope my friend has some good news for me. Today is 3 weeks since she told me she would reach out.

    #37644
    Mj
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    How do you guys even have long conversations with your exes??

    Mine wont go beyond 10 exchanges :/

    #37645
    KD1988
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    @Mj not really long convos my friend lol. Just a bit of banter back and forth. I say “talking a lot” this weekend. I don’t mean all the time, just a lot more than we have in the last 3 weeks.

    But still no letter, it hasn’t come yet. Another night of waiting for it!!

    #37646
    Mj
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    well at least the convo headed somewhere. idk it feels to me like she doesnt want to continue sometimes.

    try not thinking about the letter! when it does come then you will be surprised!

    #37648
    KD1988
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    @Mj headed somewhere and that cut off just as quickly as it began! Honestly, it’s not progress. Sometimes I think it is, but it really isn’t. Feel like I’m heading to having to move on soon.

    #37678
    Oshi
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    @KD1988 My ex’s letter still hasn’t arrived as well, I’m checking my mailbox every hour and watching the door in case the postman will arrive LOL, I can’t keep up like this! can’t sleep well at night, I know the letter wouldn’t change anything but deep inside I keep hoping but I know I shouldn’t :\
    We’ve also talked on the phone this weekend and had a nice conversation, he seemed interested in talking and I felt some change in his voice and the way he talked but maybe that’s just my imagination.

    I guess we just have to wait till tomorrow and see what happens. At least we know that we’ve tried everything we could. I’m wishing you the best of luck!

    #37682
    KD1988
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    @oshi

    Mine should definitely be there tomorrow. I’m so
    Nervous!!! I’m the same as you, I wNt it change but it won’t change anything!

    #37715
    KD1988
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    @oshi @mj

    My ex just text me saying I don’t need to tell him when ive got the letter… Right. So not going to be anything important then!

    #37737
    Mj
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    oh darn… probably just a formal letter then…

    #37753
    KD1988
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    @mj exactly. Just a polite one I reckon.

    Shall I go back to nc?

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