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Feelings change all the time! I don’t think you are in a situation with no return. Trust me, you can get him back and he probably misses you. You were easy to get before, and he knew he could have you any time. Now you are elusive.
That is true but he will be keeping himself busy not to miss me.
Let’s see how long before I ever hear from him again because the longer I stay away the more he will move on.
No, the more likely he is to miss you and see you in a different light! Be optimistic.
Jeez, with my situation, it was so messed up. She was being so cold. I remember, in September, this girl I knew asked to stay over because she had no where else to stay. We then slept together, because I felt so lonely. In the morning I felt really bad with a new determination to make things work.
The next day, my ex text saying she was in London, which was unusual, because she had said she was busy in evenings, too busy to see me. So, I asked her if she wanted break up. She said yes, which was so strange, as I suggested breaking up the week before for a trial, and she complained of chest pains, she was so scared of losing me.
We then met up that evening. I remember, we were on a tube train and we would usually hold hands. She reached out, and then remembered. I then remember her start crying on a packed train, before we then walked to a location to talk about things. It was so emotional, and she lied – saying she wanted to go to Australia and didn’t want to set herself up for heartbreak with me. It was only later in the evening that some truth came out and she went hysterical, saying that me changing my profile picture changed everything and that it hurt her so much. She cried and explained that her parents nor her could understand why I did it.
She then told me that she had been trying to get over me and had been trying so hard. She said that she was scared of falling anymore in love with me, in case she got hurt. It was terrible, I could see she still loved me in that moment.
Then it was only the next day, when I looked on Facebook, when I discovered the full truth and betrayal. Gah, sorry, had to get that out.
It’s ok to rant, we are here to listen and support you best we can!
She was very mixed up when she ended it, again she listened to her parents, her insecurities got the better of her!
Omg OMG! He’s text me! What do I do! he said this:
Hey sorry I didn’t reply few weeks ago was just a bit peed off I guess. Was just thinking about u and wanted to say hope your ok and doing well look after yourselfHa. I fuckin told ya he would be back. You didn’t listen. I said he’d be back before the time is up.
Don’t reply. I know it’s tough but you have to let him chase. Let him miss you.
Caz. Don’t reply. Please. Let him think. If you reply now you slip straight back into where you were a few weeks ago.
You have your answers now. He was thinking of you.
He was pissed off. But time is healing.
He is reaching out. But he needs to miss you a lot. He may not be there yet.Caz! Congratulations! I told you 🙂 I agree with Patrick, do not reply!
Please, tell me all about it!
Morning @Libertine1, thank you, I promise I will not text back 🙂
I was lying in bed and I heard my phone go and I didn’t look, it went again and I thought that’s a text message as a lot of my friends contact me through what’s app or facebook and then suddenly I got this feeling it was him so I looked and couldn’t believe it.
Shock and don’t know what to think
How are you this morning?
Caz, i am so happy and proud of you! You are doing the correct thing in not texting him, you will really get him to chase now. You are doing it! And I doubt you could have resisted texting back a few weeks ago! I knew he would text!
Ermmm, I am resigned to never getting her back now which I think it progress. Everything is stacked against me. She didn’t probably love me that much. She loves that guy now. I cheated on her. Her parents hate me, and I have been absolutely crazy texting almost every day multiple times absolutely mental stuff and horrible things, nor just to her, but friends and fanily. This is to the extent that she either pitys me or is scared. I have to accept that and move on.
I saw on the guy’s wall today that she had liked one of his videos. She would never usually like something on his or anyone’s wall. I have to accept it and forget about her. And in truth, I feel ok about it.
I think he was just wondering about me but their is nothing in that text asking me how I am just hoping I’m ok, he won’t text again.
Don’t think like that, it’s a rebound it just needs more time she will be back I have faith, please stay strong & positive
If I were to say that this text meant nothing and wasn’t him reaching out, then I would be naive. Remember, you really did think he had forgot about you! Keep up no contac, give it as long as you need. Maybe he will even text again! But he is definitely thinking about you. Just think also, why get in touch with you? Why not just leave it? You have done so well!
Ha, thanks Caz. But she has moved on. There is no way back. All of my friends agree. It wasn’t a long term relationship and it is extremely hard for her to come back, even if she wanted to, which she doesn’. It simply will not happen.
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