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December 24, 2014 at 8:15 am #20776
Did u text your ex gf like that? Hows your situation going on? How are you today?
December 24, 2014 at 12:10 pm #20805Well since yes she did since i congradulated her on getting her drivers liscences.
And my situation isnt so great i mean i think i did a mistake i invited her on an other “date” too soon i tried getting to see her on the 31st she couldnt she was with family and then i tried again for the 2nd she did not reply :/
December 24, 2014 at 2:00 pm #20828December 24, 2014 at 2:34 pm #20834December 24, 2014 at 5:42 pm #20860I think its better not to ask “date” after the first cancellation date. Its better to wait few weeks. Maybe wait until u guy feel better.
Well, today this is it! Im nervous very very much….
December 24, 2014 at 6:41 pm #20865Its good that you are ๐ and also i did not call it a date just a super with my mom and her gay friend, for the gay guys birthday and then i asked her if she was free on the 2nd she did not answer
December 24, 2014 at 7:35 pm #20872Im nervous because i believe he still with her and happy with her all the time ๐ im nervous if i didnt give a shot. I know it takes time. Well i try.
Its ok. Perhaps she has something else in her mind or busy. Let it be. Wait until she text u back meanwhile u just work on yourself more okay?
December 24, 2014 at 7:42 pm #20874So since I’ve talked to you two before, mind if ask for some help? I’m really really stuck now.
when we were going to hang out, he just told me he went to the movies with his rebound. And that when he wanted to hang out, he just wanted sex. I want to give up. This isnโt him. I thought I was finally getting him back I thought my hard work was actually doing something. I just want to give it all up. Why is he being like this again? someone help
So many people have been saying he’ll come back and all that. I’m so lost. I’ve worked so Very hard to get him back. What should I do? What is he suddenly being like this? ๐
December 24, 2014 at 9:06 pm #20880He just want u for that?? And he mentioned it directly to u?? Oh no no no. Girl, you are far away better than this. It means that his rebound is not good enough to fulfill what he wants. U are more worth it than just that. He needs to realize that. If u want him back, then u need to show him that u are worth it, u are not easy to fall just for that and u are more way better than his rebound to fall in love again. But if u think he is not that one since he me tioned it like rhat just for rhat, then its up to u ๐
December 24, 2014 at 9:19 pm #20882He said it all while snapchating. Not trying to sound selfish, but I am better than his little rebound. I was the only girl that stuck by him when things got rough for him. I was the first girl he honestly clicks with and she, they have nothing in common. He’s just being stupid. Of course she isn’t good enough, she’s nothing. Again, not trying to sound selfish and conceited. But yes, I do want to prove him that. But I don’t know how and I need help doing that
And then an hour after all that. He had the nerve to snapchat me his stupid bear grylls knife he bought. I don’t care
I am not. Repeat. NOT. Speaking to him for awhile.
I do want him back. I want him to realize this crap. But I need help getting him back
December 24, 2014 at 9:30 pm #20884I just don’t understand anymore…I want to give up. This is not him. Please help me
December 24, 2014 at 9:41 pm #20885You should move on. I have a question though. Were there patterns of emotional abuse by him in your relationship?
He only told you about this rebound date, right?
Also, do you think there’s a chance he is trying to make you jealous or getva rise out of you?
No matter the answers, in my opinion, you should move on. You are too good for that. If you keep communicating with him, it will come off like you are willing to be his doormat.
People change.
And ppl said you had a chance because of the content of your previous posts. This is very different. What a 180.
December 24, 2014 at 9:48 pm #20887I kind of think he is trying to make me jealous and very rarely. But he always felt bad afterwards. This just kills me. I don’t understand. His actions said so much, that he still loved me. I still want him. He said he missed me and all that. I’ve put so much work into this…
December 24, 2014 at 9:50 pm #20888Why would he try to make me jealous though? I still want him. But right now, I don’t want even want his freaking name. I’m disgusted right now.
But what if he comes back? Or how do get him crawling back?
December 24, 2014 at 10:00 pm #20890Your best move is to move on for now. Get to the point where you are great without him. You put in work and made changes. He didn’t.
If you didnt respond like he wanted after he cancelled on you, then he could just be lying about his date with the rebound.
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