Boards Reconciliation Feeling conflicted. What could this mean? OPINIONS

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    sweetlildove
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    So yesterday I posted a quote on my instagram that said, “some things just aren’t meant to be….” and my ex liked it. He unfollowed me months ago. We dated for a year and broke up 6 months ago because people were too involved in our relationship and his dad didn’t want us to be together. I broke up with him btw. I’m not trying to think too much into it but I’m curious. What are your opinions on this?

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    patricia12
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    @sweetlildove – He agrees that you two are not meant to be. He made it clear 6 months ago that he didn’t want to be with you anymore. Time to move on and stop obsessing about him.

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    sweetlildove
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    @patricia12 – I’m not obsessing about him but I just find it odd to why he would like my post out of nowhere. I think it’s petty if you ask me. I was coming to terms with the breakup and moving forward but he messed it up for me by liking the post. Why was he even on my profile to begin with…

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    sweetlildove
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    @patricia12, thank you for your input hun.

    Not only that, another ex of mine from years ago liked my post too lol. Just recently, two of my old exes told me they regretted losing me lol.

    But what my recent ex and I had was special, I did a lot for him and vice versa. We understood each other very well. The good outweighed the bad. I made a lot of sacrifices to be with him but in the end he didn’t have a problem watching me leave and all it would take was for him to fight for me and make me stay. Guess I wasn’t worth it. But I’ll be okay.

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    patricia12
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    @sweetlildove – You felt ignored and unappreciated and he let you go. Then when you contacted him in June, you poured your heart out to him, yet he sounded bored with the conversation. He said he needed time, but the break up was 6 months ago. Don’t get down on yourself, I’m sure you are a great person, but he just didn’t want to be with you anymore. Some people just don’t fit good together for the long run. Please stop wondering about stuff on social media! How does that help you move on? I’m glad you said you’ll be okay and I’m sure you will:) Wish you the best..

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