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  • April 3, 2015 at 10:14 am #39778
    lolita
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    really? @ellie96 do you really think he still loves me??

    I mean he’s said a bunch of times I’m always gonna be his girl, no matter what. I know he asked this girl to be his gf because he’s mad. My uncle and my brother both told him to get lost and to stop bothering me, and he is overreacting now.

    His family loves me and i know me loves me as well. He just isn’t clear right now and his new friends are influencing him to make bad decisions. His new friends are his go’s friends and thats why he can’t see clearly.

    Im gonna give it time, because time heals everything. Im gonna start some tennis lessons and i’ll just keep busy.

    Thank you guys for you amazing advice. You always seem to understand me. I don’t know that i would do if i hadn’t found this site.

    April 3, 2015 at 10:20 am #39779
    Mj
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    Hey Lolita, if you have decided that he is the one for you, then so be it. But yes give it some time for things to cool off for now, and it would be good if you could explain to your family? If that’s possible.

    April 3, 2015 at 11:28 am #39785
    lolita
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    @mj unfortunately my family has seen and heard about everything he’s done to be, so thats why they don’t want to see him anymore. They don’t understand what i feel and they say i should just forget about him and never get back together with him. Even my friends say that. Thats why i will give the subject a rest, even though its hard, so things cool off. I just hope his mom doesn’t start posting pictures of them.

    April 3, 2015 at 9:45 pm #39850
    ellie96
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    @lolita Yes I really think so..

    Honestly, I think I am going to follow in your footsteps. I’m trying to balance everything out just like you.

    April 4, 2015 at 5:29 am #39867
    lolita
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    mornings are the worst. I hate waking up confused and alone, tired of the same thing. He has a pattern and i already know it witch is goos, but this time he’s taking everything to the next level.

    April 4, 2015 at 5:53 am #39873
    ellie96
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    @lolita Just focus on you as much as you can. You’re more important right now.

    April 5, 2015 at 6:27 am #39992
    lolita
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    thanks guys

    April 10, 2015 at 9:57 am #40791
    lolita
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    heeyy

    so I’m on day 10 of NC. He tried contacting me o day 6 and 7. I blocked him on whasapp and he’s begged me numerous times to unblock him. I haven’t answered to any of his messages or phone calls. He used a friend to get in touch with me and it didn’t work either. So yesterday he decided not to try.

    Its been hard not answering, but i know thats the right thing to do. He told his friend that he’s gonna dump his girlfriend and stay alone for a while to see if that we i get back together with him. I want to believe him but i can’t. He told me that a bunch of times the last month.

    Im afraid that because i’m not speaking to him at all, he’ll just walk away and stay with her forever. I fear that every time i ignore him I’m just pushing him towards her.

    What do you guys think?

    April 10, 2015 at 9:59 am #40793
    Mj
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    It’s good to see that he is trying, but you have to make sure its for real this time

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