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  • January 9, 2018 at 6:35 am #89012
    Malinda
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    Hello..

    This will be for the last time I will do NC. 30 days..until if only I get a real action (not words) from him, if not then finishing it for good! I’m not going to answer at all, if he writes anyway.
    There is no love or hope about it and I’m aware of it, I’m just encouraging myself with doing this and letting this out and go away.

    January 9, 2018 at 8:52 am #89013
    JeanValins
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    Hi there

    If you still not feeling well then something might went in other direction that you must follow

    NC rule is mostly for you not for him to move on only , its for you to work on your self and get your self back to do what you enjoy and makes you stronger , makes you unneed for him in your life anf focus on the main goal why you need him to be in your life which i think you have already know this

    If you feel you need to be in NC rule again then yes do it , but make sure this time it has to be done perfectly , you need you only to make it work , you know the person morethan anyone which will make it easier for you to deal with his behavior ,

    You might need good people to help you do things or say things in the right way or passing the time by being positive

    If you have non feel free to send me messages and i will replay to you asap when i m around

    I m sure you can do it
    If you need anything , hit me up at [email protected]

    January 9, 2018 at 9:26 am #89014
    Malinda
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    Hi.

    Thank you for commenting, appreciate your words.
    I did quite number of NC’s and he kept coming back only with words and each time it happened after when I started to feel myself better and powerful, and each time left me up in the air, so this worn me out. A year passed away like this and it is ridiculous really.
    But in the end it was me that I let him behave that way. So I’m going to stop this going.
    I would like to hear about your story if you like to tell.

    January 9, 2018 at 8:02 pm #89015
    patricia12
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    @Malinda – If this is the same guy you’ve been writing about for 3 years, it’s time to stop wasting your time. Stop wallowing in sadness and confusion and stop rehashing the past over and over by coming here looking for advice and endlessly talking about it. Date others and find someone you can trust and that you will be compatible with..

    January 10, 2018 at 12:05 am #89016
    Malinda
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    Yes it is the same guy. And I will follow your advice. Thank you @patricia12

    January 28, 2018 at 10:18 pm #89964
    mr_the_ex
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    I’m sorry it has hurt for so long. Sometimes it is like that. The heart wants what it wants.

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