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Hello Kevin,
I broke the NC Rule 3 times. At the last time it was going pretty well she contacted me 3 times and I answered typically to her (she even kissed me in one of the previous times, at my 2nd atemt to hold the rule). Last time I went to her place at the 16th day cause she started dating a guy…
The result was to make her mad and she told me that she doesn’t wanna see me again and that I don’t know what love means and unfriend me at the social media but not from her phone…
Do I have a chance to win her back if I follow the NCR again for some time??? What should I do…
P.S. Before that month we had an amazing period together with great sex and true love feelings. But she saw a message at my old phone just flirting a girl a year ago…
Need more detail. How old are you? How long were you together and why did she break up with you? How long ago was the breakup? How did you find out she was dating a guy? Is she still dating the same guy? Or is she dating other guys?
Nobody can say if she would want to be with you again. No contact is to improve yourself in all areas necessary and the possible accept the breakup without obsessing about it and to move on if necessary.
I am 32. We were together for 1,5 years.
She said she wasn’t feeling in love. But the last 3 weeks were the most sensual, romantic and strong days of our relationship!
She found an SMS on my old phone that I gave her to use and I was flirting a girl.
The break up was on the 9th of March, tried a couple of times to hold on the NCR but I didn’t manage…(in this period she text me and she even called me)
I went to her place the day I realized something is wrong and I called the guy that she was out with 7am…
She came back upset of course…and after 2 days because I text her after that she called me to tell me not to bother her again… 14th of April…
And that’s it…One of the times I broke the NCR she kissed me out of her apartment and almost went to have sex…but we stopped!
@dimitris – First of all, why did you flirt with a girl? Were you doing it after the breakup and is that when she found out? It’s hard to follow your story. “I went to her place the day I realized something is wrong and I called the guy that she was out with 7am” What do you mean you realized something was wrong? Why and how did you suspect something was wrong? And what was wrong? She’s not feeling in love and there’s not much you can do to change that. Perhaps the “honeymoon” phase ended and she doesn’t understand about the phases of love relationships. Try to keep no contact and see what happens. Maybe let her know you need time to think about why the relationship ended.
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