do you think its a good idea to drop by her place from 20-22 Jan(next week). Using the alibi of work related matters, to get in contact with her. She knows i will need to go there to do work(which is now not the case as the item i m after is not available anymore, therefore is an outright alibi of meeting her).
This may interfere with her rhythm w the guy or she probably will reject spending much time with me(remember she will be spending tonnes of time with the guy this week).
It can gauge out if she still has feelings or not (or maybe she is being polite). Remember she sort of asked me twice if i m going there next weekend.
Or you do not condone this and would advise the no contact? I know this encounter may also mess up my own rhythm of no contact healing?
She already knows the factory with the material you’re looking for shutdown. And if the item isn’t available anymore, it’s best not to lie about it or use an alibi to contact her. My suggestion is that you use the purchased flight tickets and follow through with your 4 day concert trip.