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  • #38371
    Malinda
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    Taurus, they are best known with their stubbornness I think, I dont know much about it actually but I started reading their characteristics and told myself why havent I read those all before because his behaviors just fits in with it. You know your lover but when you get to see them in big picture with reading their characteristics, you realize things better @KD1988

    #38374
    pineappleblue
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    @malinda Oooh this is interesting! Mines a Sagittarius! Tell me more.. Haha!

    #38375
    KD1988
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    @Malinda yeah I like horoscopes. Stubborness sounds about right lol. He is VERY stubborn. Even if he knows he is wrong. I think that’s what is happening at the moment. Here is my theory: He thought I was going to end it, he begged and pleaded not to and suggested going on a break, I agreed. Next day he ends it because he thinks that’s what I was going to do all along. It’s his pride. He now feels he can’t go back on his decision now he made it because he will appear weak (and is too stubborn) so is trying to convince himself he’s right. Which he isn’t lol

    #38383
    Malinda
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    @pineappleblue hehe and what are yours @KD1988

    #38384
    pineappleblue
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    It’s interesting @kd1988 coz I feel like stubbornness and pride are all in my situation too! I figured even if he thinks he’s made a mistake he won’t admit it to anyone coz he’s too proud!
    It will be interesting to see what @malinda says about Saggi’s.

    #38385
    Malinda
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    @KD1988 your assumptions seem true, some immature people are not able to get over these negative sides of their characteristics I guess

    #38388
    Malinda
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    @pineappleblue it says that; Sagittarius natives can be over-confident. They tend to believe that they can do no wrong, and thus actually end up making many mistakes.

    Its also about men thing, they are very simple in fact and I think when you push them hard invisibly without them realizing with your confidence then most probably they will be caught bad but there is a very fine point for us to achieve it

    #38390
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    He never used to be over confident! In fact he wasn’t confident really at all when we met.. He always said I made him feel like the most incredible person in the world which made him confident! Back down to him telling me I made him the man he is today ๐Ÿ™ why is that not enough eh?

    He’s very confident now, or was towards the end (I couldn’t tell you about now as I don’t know the effects of being without me to pump him up), probably a little over confident! I always used to joke about him being a big head!

    #38392
    KD1988
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    @malinda I am a Gemini, what does it say about me? Lol.

    Pride and stubbornness are so annoying!! Coz they are willing to lose things Over just a simple thing such as accepting maybe the decision they made could be rectified!

    #38393
    Malinda
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    Its the same with me, I made him all confident now and hes leaving me behind without looking back once, hes leaving the country I feel as if he used me during his time here and he is finished with me I feel this way because he kept trying to contact me during our break ups before but now no any contact for 13 days.. hes soon going abroad and he doesnt need me no more and hes so excited for his new life. They are looking for new challenges and options maybe

    #38395
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    Oh yeah they’re definitely looking for something ‘more’. It’s the typical grass is greener syndrome!
    My ex has told me he just wants to focus on his career (he’s in the military – hence him living away during the week) and live the single life! I’m hoping he has realised in the last month that maybe being without me isn’t as good as he thought it would be! Or maybe he’s enjoying it.. I don’t know! But we were together for 6 years so you’d like to think he’s missing me! I don’t know.. I’m so confused!

    #38397
    KD1988
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    There is no way they aren’t missing you. They will just trying not to show it or act on it! We deal with things so much better even if it doesn’t feel like
    It right now

    #38399
    Malinda
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    Girls I’m not an expert at all ๐Ÿ˜› lol I have just read about the sign’s characteristics after the break ups for myself to get to know and understand him better maybe…so I thought it might be interesting for you to read about them too which may help you a little

    #38401
    Malinda
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    6 years! He must be something else other than human if he is not missing you, sorry if it was too much but its what its…well if they are meant to be together with us then they will realize and come back, if not (which I dont even want to think about) life goes on :/

    #38402
    pineappleblue
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    I really hope he does as that’s what’s Gonna bring him back ๐Ÿ™ sorry I’m being really whingey! Just feeling that way out tonight..

    Don’t worry @malinda I wasn’t expecting you to be! Just started thinking again that’s all! I think that’s my problem! I wish I could turn my brain off.. Haha!

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