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i asked her also if shed like to go to a zoo next saturday.. i know its her day off, im unsure if that was too soon to ask? we wanted to go before but weve got some nice weather here all of a sudden and its quite rare so i dont wanna pass down the opportunity! she hasn’t replied to that yet though.. only about the theatre. i asked in the same text too.
Well, if you are going somewhere it’s already good. The theater is later right? Maybe she doesn’t want to hang out so soon but I think because your meetup went so well, you shoudln’t let a lot of time go by. But also don’t text her all the time or seem needy. I had a great meetup with my ex two and because I was affraid to have pushed him away by seeming extremely happy and confident we would get back, I didn’t talk to him for two weeks even on valentines day (he hasn’t either) and I regret it
thanks, that sounds like good advice. The theater is on the 26th. so it is later yeah 🙂 and i think your right about the texting. i wish someone would just lock my phone away..
have you gotten back with your ex did you say?
No 🙁 I didn’t. Could you read my topic? You know the first month I was feeling bad but just letting time go and trying to be calm and positive. We were together two times during that time and we were cool the second time but after that he doesn’t seem comfortable with me anymore :/
Im contacting my ex for the first time tomorrow – am terrified! I want a positive outcome from our first meet too – Im hoping the fact we were best friends a year and a half before we went out will help the friendship return….and see where we go from there 🙁
Its scary doing this kind of stuff with the person you still love but also who broke your heart! 🙁
Kailia you should text him! be cool and casual 😉 and thargus it all sounds positive !! 😀 just make sure it doesnt turn into neediness 🙂 maybe when you go to the theatre a second time ask about the zoo casually? 🙂
my dear, texting him is not gonna help in my situation right now. but I hope it does in yours. its a beautiful day outside. if I didnt screw up I would be with him now riding a motorcycle going to his house in a small town with amazing nature to celebrate his birthday with all of his friends. I hate my life, why argh
I think I’m going to wait until the third time we go out together before I say anything. We are going bowling for my cousins birthday on the 22nd and me and my ex will both be there, then on the 26th we will be going yo the show. But I don’t know how to engage the conversation..
Amy it is so scary. i couldn’t agree more. im trying my best not to make it seem needy at all, we will sew what happens and i will keep you up to date! but you must keep me up to date too! keep posting here. it makes people feel better 🙂 and Kaila you shouldn’t feel like that. don’t hate your life, if you do then people will see that and especially him. if you be confident in yourself he will see it and notice it i GUARANTEE. this will make a big impact.
You are right… Thank you. I am so stressed out and affraid. Our mutual friend probably already talked with him and she has come to facebook already. She did say we would talk about it monday but I don’t know if it was positive maybe she would have said soemthing already? I am so affraid she will say he doesn’t feel the same about me anymore
Awww no Kaila I’m sure that isn’t true-if he really loved you feelings wouldn’t just vanish 🙂
And thanks thargus!! I’m plannig on texting him later this afternoon…
Big question though!! If he replies, how long shall I wait to reply?! He’s always been VERY slow at replying, like literally 2/3 hours between each text – as that’s how it’s always been! I didn’t know whether to wait a while if he does reply as I don’t want to seem too needy/keen :S
Amy I really hope so… but last time I was with him, a week ago almost, he seemed off.
I would say it depends on the time. Were you supposed to be doing something? If so text whenever you are free. If not text after half an hour or so. If you would usually take hours take hours. Don’t make it seem like you are playing games.
Sometimes I take hours to answer because I don’t feel like answering right away. I want to calm down an unwind because most likely I have been stressing out if he will answer or not so when he does I just need to unwindHi guys could u possible give me some insite on my post pls
Just wait for his reply Amy trust me. Even if its a few days. The ball is in his court then 🙂 you will only seem needy if you send a second text no matter what it is, its very obvious and easy to work out when someone is trying to get your attention! You can do this 🙂
And yes of course rusty! I will give you some advice once if read through it 🙂 also could you check out mine? Its on my other posts, but also could you give me an opinion in regards to my first post in this thread 🙂
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