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  • #21435
    samuel
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    @ginnie

    That last reply was rude, just do NC first stay friendly at work and whenever you see him but dont get personal and keep your interactions short

    Work on yourself

    Make yourself the most attractive as possible

    Then contact him with the “note” then let him talk to you 😉

    #21666
    ginnie
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    @samuel
    “note”…??? i dint get that part…
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    Hi

    @samuel


    @aryyan


    @JohnLe

    I tried the NC. When I observe him nowadays..it seems he is drifting away…
    he used to come n talk – that has reduced too!
    he used to be uneasy earlier when we were together in one room, now he is completely ok! indifferent.
    Please advise soon….
    Need ur advise urgently!
    Am I loosing him?
    What should I do right now…shud I talk to him?
    Shud I just let go?
    Please advise soon….
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    I am shattered, broken to pieces and reduced to ashes with his decision, then his cold behaviour and now his indifferent attitude.
    I am shouting inside…i want to get it out….
    dunno how to relieve myself of this…I cant shout at him as I love him!
    Help…..

    #21672
    aryyan
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    @ginnie

    So u finished ur NC? My ex bf also drifting away after i did my Nc. He didnt reply my text. Is it like him? He ignores u?

    #21673
    ginnie
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    NC not finished…but as u know….we r in same office…his behaviour shows…he is indifferent. no ignoring…but he used to earlier ask for tea, now that has stopped too!
    dunno what to do?

    #21681
    aryyan
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    @ginnie

    It seems like he is trying to play pull and push game with u? It started when u said why u want to know right?

    #21843
    ginnie
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    @aryyan
    (It seems like he is trying to play pull and push game with u? It started when u said why u want to know right?)
    Yes, right. A little before that…

    yesterday…i spoke to him…i said that i will prefer to clarify things rather than keep myself in question mark state (read confusion…)
    So, he said(in a very cool manner)…I am just friends because we are in the same office. I do not wish to keep any relationship with u post that.
    So today I am gonna tell him…’we ought to stay just professional. Not even friends.’
    I guess…Now the real NC will begin.
    Wish me luck…n Let me know if what i have done or am gonna do is right or not.??

    #21859
    aryyan
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    @ginnie

    Hye ginnie. Sorry its been very hard day for me. Did u do that to ur ex? Hows his reaction?

    #21868
    ginnie
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    @aryyan
    Hey,
    Dint do that today, no time…

    Do u think its d right thing to do?

    #21875
    Confused_Girl
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    One of my friends said that he’ll come around and that he just needs to do him for awhile. That’s what we were supposed to do when we broke up and then he got mistaken and led on. I can feel in my heart that we will get back together. He snapchatted me yesterday but he just sent what he put on his story to me. What should I do?

    I just want my relationship back…

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