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Thanks bbe for advice and yeah deffo gonna try none contact worth a try not getting no we’re doing it this way…how’s it going with your ex anyway
Right now im doing the nc for 9 days. I know how you feel dear. Its really sucks for knowing thAt someone we loved didnt “care about you anymore. The worst part is they have someone else right away. Im not sure mine is a rebound since they known each other for 3 years (they were bestfriend before they couple). There is nothing i can do for him. I just try my best to do something that have benefits on me. I try to be happy, positive and take care of nyself. Its very hard but i have to. Seeing him with orher hirl, be happy and doesnt care bout me at all,,, its totally unfair
Well before i started no contact she said we were done for the moment, then i spoke to her bff to tell her it hurts me that she says that and then she told her so my ex told me she dosent love me no more and its over.
2-3 weeks after we broke up she was seeing her guy best friend, wich i doubted their relationship, then became official a month and a week ago.
She know i know but dosent tell me still. So she is hidding it in a sense yet she said that she couldnt live without him on ask.
That relationship is moving very quickly therefore i believe its a rebound.
She is getting warmer to my texts now but i dont know if ive got a shot, apparently i would according to internet haha
So i’ll see haha
Even tho he is her bestfriend but its still considered as rebound?
Yes go read the article of rebound relationships youll undersrand its exactly like the jane and garry story
But they have known each other for 3 years and they seem very happy and comfortable. 🙁 i cant even watch how sweet they are right now. Very painful
Look my ex has known her best friend for 5 years they went threw highschool together. She hasnt dated him because he was a friend and she wasnt attracted to him.
Your ex like mine will realise that their filling a whole see both of us (you an i) were the best friends of our exes and lovers they replaced us by these friends because they are comfortable. They are not over us just give him time he will see you are in the begining f NC i understand your insecurities but you are a great person one that he once fell in love with and can do again! Show him what he lost :p
Really? Your ex almost similar with mine. My ex bf told me so many times that he will not with her because she is his bestfriend and she is not romantic and they like to fight and teasing each other but at the end, he choose her as his girlfriend. Sigh. Show him? Right now im doing nc for 9 days and he still not contact me or find me. How to show him? After nc?
Well during NC dont worry about him contacting you or not. Your job is to not contact him and take time to improve yourself.
So hit the gym, do stuff you like, go shopping, hang out with friends, get new clothes, go on dates, make new friends.
Enjoy life!
Post updates of you having fun on social media’s so he can envy being by your side having fun. So he can see you dont need him to be happy.
Stop worrying about him contacting you, stop over thinking it wont help you at all it will drag you down and make you depress trust me i experienced it.
Seriously work on you dont think about what he is doing or why he isnt contacting you or how much time went by because only when you are ready to speak to him is when it will be time and for that to happen you must stop being needy and unconfident because its unatractive.
I worked on myself and started talking to my ex, i wasnt feeling it at first but yesterday i got her to agree to a meet up.
So do not give up hope follow the 5 step plan and read everything on this blog do all the appropriate steps and everything will go fine even if you dont get your ex back you’ll have become a better you and you’ll be smarter 😉
Can i post my new updates after the NC? Because im still working on nyself
Ya sure haha you decide 🙂
I just saw his gf’s friends tweet about them and they said that my ex and her are in honeymoon phase but his gf doesnt care about it. In fact, she is so proud and grateful to hAve him and be happy. Sigh. Is there any good news for me rather than these? I cant do anything to get him back or make him niss me now. I try so hard to focus on nyself. My friends said im getting thinner but they seems worried and when i hang out with them (my friends), they keep talking about their bfs and gossip about it. How can i be so happy if they dont care what i feel? Sigh
Stop stalking your ex it wont help you at all. You can get him back, stop worying about this. Delete him and his gf from every social media, clense yourself from them it will help you work on yourself.
For your friends well it cant be really helped you can explain to them how you feel and try to make them sensible to your situation but if they dont understand they are not real friends i got mad to some of my friends and family members for telling me i could do better so dont let them affect you is what i suggest since only you know what is good or not for you, you know what you want.
I didnt stalk them to be honest. The status pop out on my timeline. I shut down my twitter and fb since i didnt update anything durIng nc now.
Yah. Sometimes i try keep busy myself without friends. Its hard when they talked like its easy to do. They should be like u know consider abouy me since im still heartbroken.
I want him back of course. I try mybest to improve myself physically and metally. Its very painful but like u said, i have to focus myself. My mind keep missing him like crazy but im so pissed off sometimes like whats wrong with u? How could u not missing me at all? Urgh!
Anyway, im so agree with ur advice. I feels like i have a hope a bit even he has someone else now.
I understand you completly cuz at some point you and yiur ex did not see yourselves appart from each other it was the same for us.
Now she is with this guy and says she could not live without him makes me mad and sad but i cant keep being depressed.
I still got to set up a date yesterday with her so thats good she agreed to see me for coffee haha made a bet and lost against her so i have to pay her a hot chocolate.
She is getting warmer to my texts so well see where i go.
As for him not missing you, you cant really say that since your not in his head he might be thinking of you when your not with her and he is most likely comparing you to her. So stay calm and keep doing what your doing everything will be alright 🙂
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