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You were right to have her block you from facebook and I’m glad my ex done it because you would go crazy checking it every 10 minutes, I like to think my ex unblocks me every now and then to have a look but mine is completely blocked, so he can only see my profile pic which he always said was his favourite pic of me!
She will get curious I would be curious if someone I know was texting and then all of a sudden stopped.
I was particularly mental though, right? I mean, I text her constantly for 3 months without any response. Complete madness!
Awww, I did that too for a bit, changed my photo to the one which was her favourite of mine. Now I have a photo which shows what an awesome Christmas I had. I am sure he does look at you profile!
You were not mental, but you know what you done was out of character for you but your changing that!
I’m out next week so I’ll change it again to me smiling with friends, I like to think he does but I doubt it…
But you see, she will not miss me. And I put her off so much, due to my craziness. That is why I think it is impossible.
Yes, do it! Let him know that you are having fun and that you can have fun without him! Make sure you do this 🙂
Yes she will! Because all of a sudden you were there and your gone, you have to give her time to remember the good times you both shared.
I’ll change plus I’ve lost weight and look healthy! But again don’t think he does
He will! He seems to respect you. My ex lost all respect for me and ostracised me. You are doing all the right things!
Just give it time and follow your plan! Don’t expect instant results!
Yes respects me enough to let me move on! your ex done it because of the texts but she will let all of that go in time and remember the good times!
I don’t expect anything anymore
Keep to the plan! I think it will turn out good for you! If you cannot get him back straight away, then come back as a false friend. I think you can at least do that!
I am trying to be optimistic, but cannot. There is so much against me, Caz. Too much. Her parents like this guy, she seems to like him enough. She will be in a long term relationship with him now, and be pleased to be rid of me.
No to me it’s all or nothing, I can’t be false & be hurt everytime I hear he’s slept with someone.
Stay optimistic! She can’t let her parents live her life for her she will resent them for that! Your not even fully sure if she’s with this guy
Trust me, I know, I have a good instinct. And I realise it could take years before she learns to resent them. I am in the worst possible situation. I doubt there is coming back. But I have learnt a lot.
Hmm, yea – I realise it is quite hard to be in that position. Obviously you do not want to hear about if he is sleeping with someone. But, you have to see things from a different perspective. You have to turn the tables and make him worried about who you might be sleeping with. You have to heal before you can do this though.
Never say never, she will text to see if your ok & why she has not heard from you.
The thing is I don’t think I will ever want to hear him sleeping with someone else, I don’t see how anyone can deal with a false friendship, I can’t find the success stories on here.
I think you will heal enough to be ok with that. After I split up from my ex, I got with quite a lot of girls, they did not mean anything to me though – it was in order to help me cope. Just see how things go.
Ha, she is never coming back. I would love a false friendship – because I know that she cannot talk to or see me without feeling something, which is why she could not see me to give me closure.
Honestly I know me and I could never sleep with him again after being with another woman wouldn’t feel right.
Exactly she’s cut you out to give herself time but will realise 🙂
Noo, she will not be back. Trust me. I can even send the most amazing magic letter, and she will not.
Hmm, that is interesting. I think we both have a very old and pure philosophy on what love should be. It is hell, thinking of them being with someone else.
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