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  • #45802
    Confused_Girl
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    Well last week, he put a status on fb “Tbt to when I was last happy.” (no picture, just depressing status) and he’s just kinda posting depressing stuff. I just don’t get why he called it off again, he was damn happy that I with him and he confessed so much, I know he still wants me

    #45811
    Confused_Girl
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    I think the fact that he did send me 2 pretty random snaps last week is a good sign. And he has been posting some depressing (and stupid shit) on fb. It’s been almost 2 weeks since he called it off, I know the beginning of last week, he said that one status. I just wish he would talk to me. I’ve been trying to get him to talk to me, but it’s not working yet. Do you think I still have a shot and that he still wants me?

    #45817
    samuel
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    You just need to stop beeing needy and he will be back because he needs a strong persone to build himself up again all insee is that if both of you were to come back it wouldnt work out since both of you arent doing great..

    #45818
    Confused_Girl
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    I want him to come back so bad, it just all confuses me about what’s happened lately

    #45829
    samuel
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    Look im in your shoes as well im having a hard time too, i want my ex back, i tried to move on and find a new partner it dosent work.. i need help as well but im getting tired of always helping you without you helping me.. id love to tell you what to do exactly to get your guy back but clearly im no expert since i cant even get my own ex back.. i just want you to help me as a favor in return of me trying to help you out :$ clearly your guy wants you! You just need to get stronger, more independant and happier and hell come back for sure! He needs to have fun and switch up his mindset provide that and im pretty sure it could do the trick! Now what do you think do i have a chance? I sent her a msg 3 days ago but she never read it or replied she wasnt on facebook for 3 days either im thinking she went on a trip in NY with school but ya i really love her! And i do dreams that predict the future and ive been dreaming alot about her and i do you think it means she will come back? Yesterday ive been gaving suicidal thoughts and bringning back my bud to his gf’s house made me jealous and nostalgic thinking about me when i was with my ex 🙁

    #45861
    Confused_Girl
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    Okay, I posted a reply but apparently it didn’t go through. I said I was sorry about, I’ve been having family issues and such and my mind is all over the place. Why do you say he does still want me?

    And maybe her phone died or is out of minutes/data? I thought my dream about him coming back was a sign too

    #45865
    Confused_Girl
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    And it bothers me that he hasn’t sent daily snapchats like he used to. He just seems so depressed, I tried talking to him this week but nothing :/ I don’t understand. I want him to talk to me and send me stupid shit. I know in my heart he still wants me, and I do feel that he’ll come back again, I just don’t understand why he had to call it off again “you’re too nice to stay, I’ve realized I don’t need a gf, but a friend” but he posts depressing stuff… I just don’t get it anymore

    #45876
    samuel
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    I told you be his friend!

    #45899
    Confused_Girl
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    I tried talking to him this week but no reply. I know he still wants me, I almost wish I could ask why he called it off again or something.What about the shit he said though? and what shows that he still wants me? I don’t see it…I fuckin balled my eyes out last night cause I feel like I fucked it up once aain and that I was never going to get him back…he’s all I want and I know he still wants me…

    #45902
    samuel
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    I think he wants you because he said so! As for what he said he dosent want to comit and be pressured into a relationship he wants to take it easy so just be friends with the guy if he dosent answer no worries and dont pressure him or yourself to think yall are a couple that will happen in time but not now

    #45915
    Confused_Girl
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    I just want him to talk to me…it’s not like to not send me anything stupid. I know thst he does still want me

    #45950
    Confused_Girl
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    I sent him a snap earlier and now he’s awake and has gotten on fb, I hope he doesn’t ignore me, he has before…When he called it off 2 weeks ago, I had a feeling that he would come back. I’m trying to make a conversation with him with the snaps. I do feel like I did something wrong and I want to apoligize…I just hope he doesn’t ignore me…

    #46039
    Confused_Girl
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    He’s seriously really depressed, he made several depressing statuses and put 4 stories on snap saying that love always fades and he wants to die and stuff. I asked if he was alright and he didn’t reply. I want him to talk to me, idk what to do 🙁

    #46078
    Confused_Girl
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    I feel like I fucked it all up again. I don’t want to lose him…I know in my heart that he’ll come back. I just don’t understand what went wrong. he’s really depressed, I tried talking to him but he won’t. I don’t know what to do…

    #46486
    Confused_Girl
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    Today was supposed to be our 1 year. And I hate it. I fucked everything up. I apologized last night for annoying him last week and then a few min later he sent me a random pic on fb, I thought it was a good sign (I still think it is) but then he just started being an ass. I’ve been having such a terrible past few weeks since he called it of again and he has too. Idk what to do. I just want him mine again…

    I know in my heart and gut that he still wants us.

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