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@patricia12 thank you very much!!!!
I think it is part of the healing process and it is understandable. He is showing some affection towards her and he knows she still thinks of him. And he knows he didn’t give her a reason for breaking up and she wanted to have some reason.
He may be ignorant of what he is doing or feeling like he is just being friendly but he should also know better.
sky, I’m sure you will find someone new who cares about you more than he did. You wrote this a while ago:
“I feel better when someone is flirting me and sometimes I am thinking well I will be with someone else, new dreams, new life…but when I am alone I am thinking the life that we would have with my ex”
and that’s exactly how it goes. At night and when you are alone is when you think about what could have been. It happens to everyone after a breakup where two people were close. And the closer the relationship was, the more it hurts. The heart wants what it wants.
It gets easier to deal with the loss and the heart heals with time. And when you find someone new, you heart will move on and you’ll find that at night and when you are alone, you don’t think about him any more, you think about other things. I know you’ve partially moved on but I also know you probably still think about it when you are alone.
@mr_the_ex hello and thank you very much for your answer!!! The strange is that when I deal with the fact that he is not gonna tell me the reason or to be again together, it passed 17 days without contact, and he started to do all that things, with the “like’ and then I wished him and he answered me as is aid above.
I had in my mind to wish him no matter if he had answered me for the reason…I am polite and this is how I am gonna be with him, I just wished him and he did what i wrote.
So ti was normal to think what is going on here, because all that months he is cold, and when I am not writing him he is doing all that with “likes”…and as you said he should know better why he is doing this.
He did it also in the first no contact period, 3 weeks no conatct, then I posted, then he did likes…
It shows me that he is here,.it is likes to make me think about him with his “likes’ on social media…and all of this happened when I try to move on..
yes, when someone is flirting me I feel very beautifull (who doesn’t feel ?hahaha) but whenmy ex do all that things, makes me to think about him, and really my life is better after the hell which I was after the break up…
Maybe he he is alone and he feels my absent in his life, who knows, but by writing me “my…..” he knew that I am going to think about our love because he already knows how I feel for him, it passed 4-5 months after break up and still i was trying for us, so he knows how I feel…and he prefers to do all that things except to talk to me…Maybe he thinks that ok it passed days from her last message so i will friendly with the “sky”, maybe he thinks that I found someone else, and he wanted to show me that I am here…
Whatever is the reason of his last actions, he knows better, and he knows that I am not gonna be here for ever for him…
Because if he wanted to talk to me, he should had tell how are you and to start talking…he didn’t…
Of course me I didn’t respond to him, I am not going to do it…I thought of no contact again, but I started to do it before 15 days, the wish message was because he has name day, and as I see in the page here, you can write him a wish message and really I wished him not for chasing him or to show him that I exist, I did it because I am person and it is normal to wish..I didn’t expected answer…or I was expecting just “thank you’ because he is more cold than the weather all that months….
To say the truth If he wants something with me, he must start talking me because if I talk to him again probably he will be again cold and no answer…
All his actions makes me to think that maybe he still thinking of me, but there is something which keeps him back and does not make him to do a step…or he is doing this just for having me as a “window” whenever he wants to come back if he will not find someone else….
Me I am trying to move on, I almost did it and then he shows me that he exists in my life….
Really I try to do whatever I love, but he is in my mind but I am not in the way i was when I came here in the page, I feel better…it would be great if he wanted to be togetehr again, because I have feelings for him , but it seems that he just want to do ‘like” so the best for me,….is to move on with my own life..
If he really loves me and wants to be together but for a special reason which I don’t know he must be far away from me, then what to say???
As you said mr_the_ex… he knows how I feel for him and that I am gonna thinking the normal…that he did “like” he called “my…” and of course he knows that I want him as a boyfriend, not just friend, If I wanted him as a friend probably we would not never be a couple…
It would be great being again together without our past, with new hopes, with new relationship, but in a relationship it needs two person not one..all that months I was alone trying for us after the break up..maybe now he is thinking of what we had…
but the question is why he is not doing a step if he feels as i feel and what I must do to make him do a step???maybe he moved on and overed me…
Me I did everything and really now I don’t have anymore the strenght to do something else, I try to move on….even if he is on my mind, even if I try the same plan for getting him back I mean the plan of the page…maybe I will be again sad…
He has to do something now…not me…of course if he wants to do something….
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