When You Realize You're Not The Only One

I need truth…

I have been trying to mend my own relationship with an ex, whom, a long time ago, after losing him before, and he quickly went to a rebound, and after following the plan, had told me that he would rather be with me.

In the meantime, I gave into my investigative feelings and started checking a Facebook page of his former relationship, which I had deemed a rebound relationship.

She has in her cover photo a picture of a ring he gave her.
He gave this ring to her for her birthday last fall.

He, a long while ago, when I confronted him, had said that she is a nice girl, but he isn’t attracted to her.

Apparently she is still wildly attracted to him. Enough so that she would still post “lovey-dovey” posts on her social media wall about love.

Also, she had mentioned they had seen each other recently (this post set to public viewing). This is what really bugs me.

So, I don’t want to be a fool anymore. He keeps saying words that keep me involved with him, meanwhile, I’m finding his rebound putting up content.

If all she is posting is true, that must mean I am a fool for being here, and holding on and fighting to stay.

I want to believe his words so much, because I want to show that I trust him. And I don’t want to tell him I was investigating his former rebound relationship’s Facebook wall. It would make me look worse.

Please, any advice would help.