Boards No Contact Rule Would this be a bad idea?

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    Britt
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    I’ve started no contact at the start of this month, but at the end of it is my ex’s birthday, I wanted to know if asking if I could take him out for his birthday would be a bad idea, or counter productive, I don’t want to ruin my chances of getting him back, but I don’t want to ignore his birthday

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    patricia12
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    It would be okay to send a birthday card, but as to asking to see him would depend on why he broke up with you and if you think he might want to see you again.

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    Britt
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    His reason was that he needs to find out who he is without me because we spent a lot of time together, and he was scared he couldn’t function without me. He never said he doesn’t love me thou, which I hope is a good sign. I’ve been giving him his space thou, so hopefully he can find himself

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